Why do so many 18 to 29-year-old men struggle in dating?
07.06.2025 17:58
They SUCK! They killed true love. And btw we call 29-year-olds old ladies, so they better be looking for men in the 40’s. You’re still young as long as the man is way older than you.
All they have is their cell phone brain, but they can find some simp to comfort them in a second, therefore they “don’t need men”. Only their simps to comfort them, right. Too bad for the simps, they don’t actually want them, so they’re doing a charity service wasting their life. You can go simping them for years until enough guys tell you to up your game and you do. But why were you simping them in first place, probably because you didn’t have a father to tell you otherwise that it really shouldn’t be that way. Men begging at their feet for nothing but them being a female. Some of these men have become downright pathetic. Gen-Z studs, they are.
So young men start complaining that women are being jerks to them, and the response each time is that he is not good enough that’s why it’s happening. Yet it seems to happen to all but the ones who just use and discard them. Some young people saw that entire relationship hellhole coming and just decided to skip it and marry young. But so many are right there in the middle of it.
Why do unattractive men assume that a pretty woman like me want them?
So they get the sleazebags they wanted and then turn against them. Playing with adult males who are actually scumbags is not a game to play. Why do they then? What exactly is their excuse for that? What is their excuse for providing aid and comfort to genuine scumbags for males?
Yes some women still understand and act like respectable women, but you get an entire class that sure doesn’t. That’s not good for men in terms of finding serious relationships. It just isn’t.
Total imbalance. Severely messed up there but that’s nature. When used wrongly they became extremely judgmental and see only the bad in men. When men’s individualism is used wrongly they become radicalized. When women develop a collectivist assault on men, men become radicalized as a response because they do not want to be part of that society any more. What’s going on now is hardly targeting bad guys, there’s a general, all out assault on males for being males. Even the good guys who try their very best never to hurt anyone. We do not commiserate with violent criminal men, we can feel the hostility from random women for the mere fact of being born male. We can see their assumptions, we can sense their vibe. We can see how they target men for absolutely minor violations, we can see how they grossly exaggerate instead of focusing on real crime. We can see women get a free pass so damn often. We can see their collectivist victimization mentality while they go degrading real women and leaving them in the dust all too often.
What if the drug dealer’s girlfriend went to jail with the drug dealer too? How about that, how many of them would be dating drug dealers then? Young women have impunity for aiding and abetting criminal men.
So you probably assume inferiority after reading that, like the person writing is lacking in something. That assumption is where people are severely wrong. A male that doesn’t make it to the magazine cover is not an inferior male. In fact the ones who do are often lacking in so much.
They will tattoo their body all over. Some tattoo their face all over too. WHAT is her problem? Good luck in finding out if your life depended on it. I think she was sold to slave traders in Zambia when she was a baby. Probably not though. Could she be like a total narcissist just for the sake of being a total narcissist? Could she be like a money grubbing GOLD DIGGER in all reality?
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So the natural pretty ones, yeah, she really is freaking HOT. They always were. The rest of them have to try, the 10’s they just have to get out of bed, seriously. They might as well be wearing clothes of a beggar guys would not miss it.
So it’s a hard fact that this problem is totally artificial and not inherent in nature.
So yeah, she really is hot as **** but avoid those freaking small monsters because all they cause is damage and back to square one, the mediocre average. Then you can’t tell your totally mediocre, average average gf “please, just do something, because you’re so average it’s killing me, I would love to love you but there’s no fire. Could you, like lose 1.2 pounds and try to look like that vampire?”.
Why do ugly men flirt with girls that are really hot?
They think they own the world. Soooooo … NOT.
Gen-Z studs simp so hard for such ordinary women it hurts to watch. These women are not ugly. They are ordinary. An ugly person can be a tremendous person. Not so pretty women never had trouble finding men for them, they have things to compensate. The ordinary is the one who’s going to be in trouble when she realizes no man actually wanted her. Surprise surprise, women don’t want ordinary men. What on Earth makes them think men want ordinary women? They sure act like men do.
When woman in general ditch female dignity, female beauty, the base position is no longer that men in general want them. The default becomes that men in general do not want them. Males are no longer looking for typical, they are all looking for exceptions. If you are typical, you suddenly actually went from wanted to unwanted.
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These women have no self confidence, they have NO DIGNITY. Men are genuinely attracted to female dignity, not to undignified females. That’s exactly the reason why in past times 80–90% of them had men who fell in love. That, combined with pressure they actually sealed the deal, got married. That’s exactly why a guy will throw out a 10 for a 7 in a heartbeat if the 10 has no dignity. They captured men with their dignity, they didn’t have to be anywhere near 10’s and they weren’t.
Talk about identity crisis.
It should be the other way around, a decent man should be able to get one much faster and much better than a scumbag, but it objectively isn’t. That just shows how they slid off the track entirely. It just shows how they did actually NOTHING to stop being beholden to the worst of men. If anything they double down on being beholden to the worst of men.
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So a lot of young guys think they all want 6′2″ men who make 6 digits, while that’s completely false. Maybe a few do, but they don’t all want the same thing. Actually what they want is a guy who they can box in easily to whatever box they’re looking for. They don’t tolerate the men who they can’t micro-judge endlessly. In the past women tolerated a much wider variety of men, now it’s all about fitting the box they’re looking for. So for a guy it’s work on yourself [to put yourself in a box], while for them no one tells them to work on themselves and then why should guys want them? You really do get a lot of the “the guy did work on himself, sweetie … and now he doesn’t want you”.
A bunch of them expect men to “integrate” with their cell phone brain hive of friends, it’s like wtf, much worse than being dragged to their house to meet their family. Not only deal with her whims and mental problems, be sure to integrate with her hive so she trusts you. Isn’t that asking for a bit too much though? Like men have no life. Like anyone but a complete pro con artist can make a bunch of unhappy women all think they are the suitable gentleman?
A player will outplay you every single time. It’s a human universal that you WILL be outplayed if that’s what you ask for. It does not matter if you dress like a thug or even tattoo your face or you’re a vampire. So be it, males WILL outplay you since it’s their instinct if it comes to that and you do not have that instinct since you’re NOT a male. If you’re uncertain about that, please check again and verify that you are not a man.
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But you look at them and you think how is that justified, they aren’t all that. You look at them and you think actually they look much more grim than anything, they need social services or something to help them. That’s what young women ACTUALLY are. Google the prevalence of depression or other serious mental problems in female age 18–29. The numbers are indeed completely tragic, they are caught in vicious cycles too. Who messed them up so bad?? Who? It was not men, men did nothing unusual. It was always their responsibility to weed out the no good men, who were always there. Even in the worst of places there was always a decent guy or two there.
It’s truly a vicious cycle where the norm is thrown out the window. Society had to balance that hard fact out one way or another and it did. The cellphone doesn’t. They would have to reprogram the cellphone to tell a bunch of women “you’re not that hot sweetie get one of those lesser guys already, they’re your league and some of them will be great, what the hell are you doing. My AI checked 128 million pictures of women found attractive by hordes of men and compared you by the millimeter, you are firmly a 6.48 out of 10. The average human woman according to my analysis is a 6.51 out of 10, therefore you are downright AVERAGE, so be happy you totally average gal and go get the most AVERAGE male, your counterpart, tigress”? Right.
Then women have to deal with a bunch of radicalized men. Radicalized men who, (probably rightly) feel that they are somehow being conned by society from what they deserve based on women being their same genetic stock.
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Why do we treat those women like respectable people? Why not everyone exclude them, boycott them, deny them entry. Then they would get a clue about their life choices.
Then it just gets worse, we haven’t talked about genuine criminals even.
“Huh? What’s going on?” Clueless.
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Hyper critical with a vast web of friends in their hive cell phone brain or otherwise they are lonely and cutting themselves. What the hell are they so f-cking critical about? Their own generation of men that is. That literally means they come from the same genetic stock, they can not possibly be superior, yet they imagine themselves to be better than their equivalent genetic stock men are. You just feel that all the time if you’re not some kind of picture perfect male for the slightest reason. You could be far above average in numerous things, it doesn’t matter if you’re not the magazine cover male.
Yet others just become a huge drag on their men. They claim the men are the drag on women, no they’re not, not for young people, it’s almost always the young women who is. The man is usually just fine and she’s the liability. Their mothers were far less critical than their hive brains friends are. I think smarter guys are asking to meet their mother, someone they can rely on.
Women were wanted. Period.
Ladies here are asking for a miracle. A bunch of them started dating each other because reliable men avoid then with a ten foot pole. They’re so messed up because of all of the above. They don’t even know where to put it.
Every single guy that age that I have ever seen in a relationship in the past 10 years it was always that. “Do you really want HER, bro?” Then most every time I was in a relationship when I was that age, guess what I heard.
Older ladies and not so pretty ones do have a public presence, they’re actually in real life, not these, all you see from them is either hiding or entitled looking down on the world around them. Why, because their mind is in the hive, it’s not in the present and the present is below them.
Now the 10’s. Those are really something. So you get some of the real pretty ones, now those are a class in itself. They are HOT and they all know it. That’s her life. You never get one now that doesn’t know it. It’s the stuff of legends now that a girl is beautiful but she doesn’t know it.
They will judge you in milliseconds if you don’t follow the program. They just can’t wait to put you in a box and if that fails they’re bewildered at who the hell are you. A lot of them just can’t deal with a man they can’t box in.
Men can see women are totally are not better. They have that hive brain exactly because they are women, and women always were much more social oriented than men on average. So she has a hive brain, he does not and she doesn’t get it it’s because she’s the woman, in 8 out of 10 cases or so it’s going to be that way. The man is the more individualistic one, she has a brain that relies on her social network. Maybe in 2 out of 10 cases it’s going to be the other way around, that’s totally fine, these are trends not absolutes. But the trends have a huge impact.
A vampire. Now we’re talking. All systems activated. They’re not that rare and most of them want to be actresses or models or worse, but they’re too messed up to actually be. “Or worse”, oh yes the entertainment industry is the entertainment industry. Only Fans!! Sugar Baby!!! We have a thing where guys who have no chance whatsoever will go downgrading them for their inner peace, but they are what they are. Trophy material. Slight variance depending on your personal taste so you can easily go downgrading to a 7 to save your sanity.
They’re so dumb they think the players are the jerks. No they aren’t, no they never were. Quite the opposite. Players are not overtly jerks to women, they charm them and use them big time. They fail at Understanding Male Behavior 101, yet they judge so willingly.
The only thing they own is that some men will go after them even if they look like a ball of slime that has “woman” written on it and men have no better choice. They could actually own being women and having pride in that, not desperately emulating men, but that’s not cool because the girlie girls are bad and girlie girls are the horribly abused. Ok. Therefore all that comes with being a dignified woman probably was all wrong.
Why don’t we hold them accountable for once? Because a true scumbag can get a young woman much faster than a decent man, so why don’t we make the small f-kers who do that take responsibility for it?
It’s quite a strange brand of woman’s advocacy to arrive at young women being used by men with a total free pass to do so.
Or they switch between the two, having 500 friends and then cutting themselves too. Whatever they do they hide most of the time, so no one knows only their hive brain. They have no public presence, none to speak of, therefore they have no persona. Having no such public persona makes it really tough for guys who for whatever reason are still single after going through school and other institutions. You get into the clubbing scene, etc. Increasingly just downright vicious. Increasingly just vicious men chasing vicious women whereas the rest are sitting at home too scared to go there. I understand women who never go, they are right not to go, the way it is now. Women are disrespected there all the time by random males, it’s true. It’s also true that random women disrespect respectful males all the time too. But what else is there, stupid online dating and fringe activities.
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Gender roles, you know things like not smoking, not drinking, not sleeping in the gutter because you’re a woman. Joking aside, take a look around the world those things actually WERE human universal gender norms. Wow, the females really were the more refined gender across the planet. Miraculous. How is that possible, they never checked with each other.
You might say, Inner beauty, feminine elegance, a stunning personality, someone really unique? Oh, that. Yeah, those are the ones we really want. You can see that from half a mile away, the rest of them are just small consumer rats scrambling to be normal. Why would you even want them unless out of desperation of not having one? Inner beauty, LOL, there really is no such thing there with most of them now.
Note to Ladies: please stop pretending you own the world. You sure as hell don’t. Look at what young women actually look like, not the models. Believe it or not that’s the stunning situation males have to face.
Ask men what percentage of women they think is “wife material”. You have a problem. Because that percent should be 80–90%. That is the percentage of people who were falling in love with and marrying prior generations of genetically the exact same women.
The prettiest ones get the most ruined.
They expect men to be clowns, then they’re interested. Men are coerced into learning some kind of program to get them interested. It’s true! This program is never written down, so they can’t look it up and outwit men. Men learn by trial and error. They either give us a very hard time like an impossible hill to climb for no reason whatsoever, or make it way too easy. What does it depend on? A guy doesn’t really know. Hell, you could be a true analytical genius, you will still never know why some are all over you others can’t decide since it’s entire whimsical. For a lot of them it depends on an emotion, so you can get better at creating that emotion they’re waiting for. See actually 90% of the time it really doesn’t depend on whether you’re a good long term investment for her, she never thinks that way. It depends on whether she can use you for anything at that particular time.
It’s like Gen Z stud, “bro, why are you simping so hard for someone so ordinary? I know you’re not blind, I was in your shoes, yeah I know the game, been there done that. You don’t look ordinary which means you don’t really want that, so why do you pretend, why are you so FAKE, bro? Everyone can see she isn’t your counterpart. If I spent half as much time being fake as you I would have to kill myself. You make these women ordinary because you pretend they’re hot when they sure aren’t. They could be. They’re not competing because all you simps faking your respect and don’t really want them either, admit it. At best, you just want to use her, admit it. But look at you man, you’re using women who are so ordinary burnt out just to burn them out some more, what the f is wrong with you. Lift them up or f-ck off her, stud. She needs a man to lift herself up, not you small player stud.”
So the girls they don’t want to date the guys who aren’t players usually, so that means 80% of guys are not good enough for them either. Small guys are scrambling to be bigger players than their friends and they look like clowns too. They want the clowns, remember, so guys are scrambling to fulfill. Other guys suck at it, they become jerks because they can’t be players, they get confronted with the reality of not being magazine cover males, and then the women whine, why are there so many jerks?
They play these games where they blackmail you whether they’re going to look attractive or not. They run programs of what they’re supposed to be doing like on schedule, even the fun times are on schedule. They will only smile on schedule too.
Maybe we should find out who did that and hold them accountable. Maybe we should take those people who do that and smack them back to the Middle Ages and get our pretty women back.
Decent men are the overwhelming majority. If you put a group of 20 guys together about 18–19 of those are decent dudes, 1–2 are the scumbags. Yet we came to tolerate our equivalent women acting that way, worshipping scumbags. Those scumbags don’t work for the 18–19 out of 20. It’s not going to change until decent men start going at them for being the “for sale” commodity that they are and show some respect for the men who earned that respect by being decent and not scum for males. A very real thing.
What no one here is talking about is that men that age do not want the majority of them. They do not want them. Ladies seriously “entitled” themselves to be not wanted. It’s like you wear your welcome out. Guys want their dream women, they do not want the actual females who surround them. Not over 90% of them, they don’t. Clearly both men and women look for value, yet 90% of young women no longer represent value in their respective men’s eyes. Therefore guys don’t even care, they can’t be bothered with all those, they only whine about the ones they actually even consider. But those 90% they never even looked at really are the human females. They don’t care either. No one cares. All these ladies, they entitled themselves to be unwanted by males in general, but they don’t even have a clue how they went doing that and some of them have a problem with it.
The giant misconception is that we can neutralize or equalize men and women, hell no because they are different by instinct. You have to change the species into a different species to neutralize species instinct.
Because young women made them into that when they made the loyal kind into losers? Duh? They did then when they started mass insulting all men who weren’t the top 20% or whatever, all but the mostly players, because why should those not insulted not be players?
There’s some kind of inherent wickedness to human life that no matter where you look in human culture, yes the females really are the more refined gender. We also have this saying “protect the women and the children”. Not “protect the men”.
They will dress like thugs, they will go screwing around with numerous men, they will develop all kinds of complexes. They will drink, smoke and do drugs. Many guys will think that’s fun until they realize the women they’re with are total wrecks for women. The fun doesn’t last so long. The guy moves on to something a lot more solid, but where is SHE left? The problem is that men her age have moved on to something a lot more solid, because they CAN. Suddenly they’re faced with the harsh reality that it was actually majority men who were solid the entire time and they were the ones losing it.
They dress like boys and purposely go out of their way to not be attractive. Men have to act like total clowns to get them interested. Yeah they just can’t stop desperately dressing like boys, you would think that would be out of style by now, but they can’t stop wanting to look like men more and more. Girls are allergic to girls. Trans men act more feminine than women do.
Jesus, it’s because men haven’t changed that much and the young Western women are “Do you really want that, bro?? Are you sure??” kind of material. They are not “wife” material.
You have to pretend she’s a rockstar when she is definitely not and doesn’t even try at all. If only the vampire could get a brain transplant. Total wife material.
So some you really want but the problem is she can’t decide if she wants you and she keeps you there for months or years. She can’t decide if she can use you or not. You’re like something in between, not particularly useful, but not useless either.
WHO did that?
Then men will throw it at their face all too brutally, often going way overboard because they pissed some guy off, disrespected him. No one knows who was right. It’s all so wrong.